Originally Posted by greenpearl
If a woman feels insecure in a marriage, she will try harder to get what she wants. Before you were married, you could get so much, because she wanted you to marry her. As soon as they get married, they feel their position is secure, they stop doing a lot of the good things to please their husbands, instead, they started nagging and complaining. That's why men like mistresses, because they try harder to keep you and they don't dare to nag. Married wives should realize this. Where do you conquer your husband? Conquer him in bed!!!! Too bad a lot of women don't know that.
believe it or not, what we normally hear here is that once the ring is on the finger, it is the HUBBY who tends to neglect the wife and not the other way. i guess what u say is true, there are chances that she might be slightly guilty in taking the easy way out sometimes.
for me, mistresses are totally outta question, love her too much to hurt her this way. i even told her the truth that, for reasons that i myself cant explain, i dont even fantasize about any other gals except for her. call me greenhorn in our relationship but i just cant bring myself to pleasure anyone else other than her