| | Re: Tired of the YO-YO.. what do you think?
He definitely needs to learn to control his anger. In every one of the examples listed, his anger/agitation was exponentially greater than the situation called for. His behavior is unacceptable, so don't let him convince you to accept it. He needs counseling. Definitely don't have kids until he can learn to control his irrational behavior.
My H occasionally gets overly angry over some things and behaves in an irrational manner. The last time he picked up the box of cleaning supplies and threw it. I was like, "look at you....throwing the cleaning supplies." So he threatened to throw another box of kitchen stuff. Then he took off in his car. My take has been telling him to look at himself. You're embarrassing. Are you proud of your behavior? That you can't control your anger? That you do stupid things as a result? Let's be real, they look childish and beyond ridiculous throwing and kicking things like children. My H seems to be learning and getting better, but time will tell.