guyfromoz

Hi Guys,
Im from Sydney and have been married to my wife for 8 years.I am now 30 and she 33.. We have two kids, 5 and 7.
We have had our ups and downs like anyone else with two infidelities on her behalf in the 8 years which I feel I have moved on from.

She is now telling me she still holds resentment from previous years to me as I was verbally abusive in the early stages of relationship (6 years) which she feels she hasn't been able to remove on from. She has also told me that she no longer finds me attractive as I have let my self go in all ways from Exercise to just general Hygiene (Lounging around the lounge in my undies etc....)

To top it off...
We have decided to accept a job offer in another state where we are going to know no one!!! Its very daunting and if I dont change my lazy ways from not helping around the house with general responsibilities to being more supportive of her physically and emotionally I know our relationship is only going to go one way and that's OVER!!!!

I'm a very perceptive person, we have had marriage counselling for years, not so much for a particular issue but just in General to remind ourselves to have an open dialogue...

I just want to have a place to come and have a chat as I need some support for when I check in and update my life..

Im sure many of you have been in similar situations and I would love to draw from your experiences to make me a better person as Im all about better self Development.

I hope you guys will be a good sounding board and visa versa.


Regards,