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To me, sex is important, but intimacy is more important. Sex is a major way couples typically communicate love, desire, appreciation, etc. If you find sex troublesome, perhaps it would help to find other ways to be intimate. Could be taking a walk with him, holding hands, just something special you only do with him. My wife has really low libido and it's obviously a problem for me, but it's easier on me if we continue to do other "couple" things. I could live without sex but don't want to live without love. Without that, all I am is some guy who goes to work and occupies space in a home. At some point, most couples end up in sexless marriages but they manage to remain in love.