Originally Posted by Conrad
The whole gunnysacking thing gets demoralizing.
A therapist advised me once... "stop apologizing for things that are over"
It's good advice. No matter how many times they're gunnysacked into the current situation.
Wow I didn't know it had a name. This stuff is so weird I thought it was more or less unique in my wife. Those that gunnysack should get a life sentence. I guess they have a life sentence in a way as they never rid themselves of real or perceived offences. They carry them with them to their grave.
Thanks Conrad for the enlightenment.