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Old 10-16-2010, 12:02 PM   #5 (permalink)
greenpearl
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Default Re: Confused! Don't wanna beg him, but don't wanna let it go!

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Originally Posted by MsLonely View Post
Greenpearl, why must you work so hard to make your husband love you? I don't think it necessary.
You know I don't work my ass off, and I don't swallow semen like you do.
My husband loves me, spoil me and he doesn't even request me to do house work because he knows I'm not good at housekeepings and am very forgetful. When it's time to have sex, he wanted me to relax and enjoy his service. I was not expected to give him blow job because he always tells me, am his wife, all what he wants is to see I'm happy. I do cook his dinner during the weekdays. In the weekends, he cooks for me and prepares me super breakfast with a cup of hot cafe latte and he wants to cook in the weekends for the family otherwise we will go out to eat. He always said he's a lucky man to be my husband and he loves me very much. I mean your approach to win a man's love is too painstaking. Does your husband still love you if you don't work hard to please him? When a man loves a woman, he can give his all to that woman. I don't mean to take his love for
Granted but your approach is a bit old Chinese thinking. Nowadays even in taiwan, many women prefer "New Good Men", who are happy to share house work and cooking.
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Ms, you are lucky for having a man like that.

I am happy doing what I am doing. It is not tiring for me at all. I enjoy what I am doing. And what I am doing is making my husband very happy. My goal is to make my husband happy, if he is happy, I am happy. Maybe you don't understand, but please remember, this is my life. I am happy doing what I am doing. You can live the kind of life you live, I won't question you anything.
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