Sabine

whats wrong with american men that they rather fc their mind on porn magasin than make love to their wife and adore them?

Tell him that he made a christian odd when he get married to oyu and that included to care for you and honor oyu. Not th epor,
Take all porn dvd and mags, and throw them in the garbage so he got nothing.
if he get mad tel him, why? you want a divorce and get married to Playboy?
beside, looking porn is a very very unchristian thing to do.
and treating you htat way is not aceptable.
Call his mum and dad and tells them htat he do that just to embarass him, that will teach him
Oh yeah he will get ourtrageosu and amd, so what? you had to pull out with his perversityh and egoism all that time, now time to turn the table and for him to get a taste of his own thing.
Youc na also invite them all for dinenr also oyur family and dish it out at the dinenr table in front of everybody.
And ask if anyone there could help you with it or have a sugfgestion to tell him to stop doing that.(his addiction as you call it). That will freeze him down, i am sure of that.
Thats only good.
it will be his wake up call of how serious and stupid it is and incredible too. As long as it stay ebtwen the 2 f you its his secret and he can ignore the bad side of it and the rerality of what it means as consequences or you and your marriage.
ut once its out, he will ahve no other choices but to face the music and do somehting about it, meaning, dropping the porn thing and taking care of you.
He got no excuses, its just an irresponsible boy like trip. But oyu dont have to accept it.
Send the bnoomerang back to his face that shoudl teach him!