Showa

Thanks for your advices. We were in a courtship for 3yrs n juz wed for 1yr, i guess the main problems lies with her mentality in this issue regarding her parents, which i feel that always they r taking advantage of her daughter in a way too. In the past issue there wasnt ANY life theatening issue(Big Problems) like FIL going on holiday, couldnt afford then she had to borrow from bank as we hav housing loan etc to cope. Then we had to pay back for afew months. 2) MIL's dad got mild stroke but MIL got 11 siblings, i feel that its always US that face all this crap. U mean 11 uncles & aunts cant cope! She has also 2 older Sis who everytime helpless towards this things. And sometimes after givin money MIL'll say things like y work so much, must find time to go CHURCH, money not IMPORTANT!(F***)As we're not stayin in the same country with PIL. In 1-2 years i thought of havin kids but i SO afraid if she doesnt change her mentality, does it mean that bcoz of wat ILs do we hav to suffer with kids in future.