mommy22

Well, you certainly don't want to be a doormat. That's for sure. However, if he's saying he'll do whatever it takes to keep you, would you consider couples counseling before throwing in the towel? Don't let him off the hook too easily. In evaluating your post, I'd say you aren't really ready to give up. You don't really want trust him based on all the lies. Talk to your pastor and ask about counseling. You may want to ask about someone who specializes in counseling for couples dealing with porn/sex addiction issues. If your husband loves you as much as he says, he won't think twice of the idea. He said he'll do what it takes? Hold him to it!!!