| | Re: Someone to chat with and advice PLEASE
Where did you get the idea you were controlling? The best way to overcome problems is to admit them, but being controlling is rarely something someone admits to.
I think counseling is a good idea. Even if her heart wasn't in it, going by yourself could really change the way you approach relationships and lead the way to repairing this one.
I don't think I can really say if anything in the relationship is over without more information. Have you been talking about divorce or separation? Who brought up counseling?