Originally Posted by marksaysay
but I believe in my heart that this is a storm in the life of two people joined by God that will subside with time. I truely believe this.
When my marriage nearly failed I relied of faith also. But not in a blind faith that God would sort it all out in the end. My faith relied on my prayers for strength and wisdom in a time I felt I had little of either. I applaud your faith, however there is also the reality of the situation and that is that your wife is not honoring her marriage. To be wed means to forsake all others, something she is not willing to do. And from your description of her FB communications, she has already betrayed that vow. If you standing up for your rights, religious beliefs and personal values pushes her away then so be it. You can work on your self, improve your marriage and become a better man without giving in to her behavior that undermines the marriage. What she is doing is not helpful to the marriage. It is an exit strategy.