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oceanbreeze · 10-31-2007, 12:43 AM

since this has gone very far, it's time to suggest couple's therapy after trying to sit down and talk about what goes through his mind each day. afterwards explain that you want to strengthen your relationship by receiving help from others this way he does not go alone. then at the sessions when you both feel ready, maybe bring up the subject if he was every in any way sexually abused. it could be that he has intimacy difficulties and therefore turns to "inanimate" visuals. they are real of course, but in a sense, no physical contact, right?

10-31-2007, 12:43 AM	#4 (permalink)
oceanbreeze Member Join Date: Oct 2007 Posts: 71	Re: Sex issues... since this has gone very far, it's time to suggest couple's therapy after trying to sit down and talk about what goes through his mind each day. afterwards explain that you want to strengthen your relationship by receiving help from others this way he does not go alone. then at the sessions when you both feel ready, maybe bring up the subject if he was every in any way sexually abused. it could be that he has intimacy difficulties and therefore turns to "inanimate" visuals. they are real of course, but in a sense, no physical contact, right?