GAsoccerman

Hey Doll,

There is some good advice above.

But it seems when you got married he had issues to begin with, I do not think he was as deep into your faith as you were, that he went along with it for whatever reason.

His true prowless was hidden in his porn and web surfing.

He ciould not talk to you about his naughty idea's or his inner fantasies, becuase you would think he was a pervert.

I see this allot down ehre in Georgia...one person of teh couple is deep into their faith and the other is not, but the second has lived a lie for so long trying to please others that he/she fail in their marriage becuase they were not honest and open with their spouse.

You can go down 2 roads here...

1. Sit down with him, just you and him and get everything out in the open....No arguing, let him speak freely about how he feels about the marriage, his life, his goes, his sexuality, his wildest fantasies, what excites him, what turns him off, etc. See how you feel about what he says, take it all in then give some time to think about if you want to be with him or not.

2. You can divorce him, and find another man that has the same values and morals as you do, there are plenty of christian dating sites on the web.

The biggest issue you both have is communication, when you both got married, you did not know each other deeply enough or where not open with each other enough to what you want out of life.

I wish you the best of luck and hope you find happiness.