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Old 10-03-2008, 08:29 AM   #12 (permalink)
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Default Re: Emotional Affair - please help

Taking a break can be a difficult but helpful step. Doting on a troubled spouse can drive them further away. You instincts tell you to hold tight but it is not necessarily the best thing. Try reading Dobson’s Love Must be Tough. Some of his theories or pretty radical but some of it helped me to better understand the dynamics of my relationship with my wife and to better manage my emotions. If you continue to have faith in your relationship, as well as in yourself you can do this and will weather it fine. Best of luck
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