| | Re: hopeless or not
i think it sounds good. it's communication, right? it's better than not telling her & bottling it up inside.
she does have a lot of anger & resentment built up & i'm sure she is totally out of her element. that's where the outbursts come from. it's really frustrating when you are given a situation to deal with that hurts like this does. how to get her to get past it - keep doing what you are doing. there are 2 parts of your letter that caught my attention most coming from your wife's perspective (1) i want no one else but you ever & (2) i will never hide anything from you ever again. VERY IMPORTANT to keep telling her. even in the future! good luck!