Originally Posted by colour-me-confused

I did this ... not because i was following the plan but because it was how i decided to be after my ex and i split. We're not yet divorced, but after three months of separation he came back and attempted to reconcile with me. So I guess it did work ... not that we're together now! Our attempt at reconciliation made me realize how different we are and how badly we communicate. Since the communication didn't improve I knew it was never going to really get better and I chose to move on.
But still, that 180 degree attitude seemed to affect him ....