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Originally Posted by babyblues7
I have recently posted on here before about some problems I had been having with my newlywed husband and I. They involved my husband sending repetitive sexual text messages to different women, phone sex with these strange women, or attempting to, viewing webcams, pornography and while we have been struggling with these issues, I recently noticed on my keylogger, it logs everything that is typed on my pc, a sexual conversation between my husband and another man. I am curious to know what this could be about. It is really starting to sicken me. I am not sure what to think anymore, could my husband be gay or bisexual? What is the deal. I really think he has some real problems, and when I try to bring these up he acts again like nothing is happening. He doesnt know I have the keylogger so he doesnt think I guess that I know any of these things. However the more I found out the more I am questioning our marriage and his love for me, as he knows these things do hurt me tremendously. He does know of some things that I have found out about him, with the texting and so forth, and recently I found a message on his cellphone about him signing up for a web date mobile service. I hate to keep reposting the same dilemma with no real solutions having being taken place. I would just like to understand before I call it quits. I am not sure how to get him to talk to me about this stuff. Any advice would be appreciated. Thanks.
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I think he has certion issues with sex and monogamy. He might be bi-sexual but I think that would have to be something you would have to really talk to him about.
As far as feeling like you are "bugging" with the same question, don't worry we have all been there. The idea of these forums is to keep going until you have a solution to the underlining problem.
In the end you have to decide what is acceptable in your relationship. Most people would not deal with this as nicely as you have.
draconis