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dontwanttoloseher · 10-25-2010, 07:17 AM

that no matter how much you talk to your spouse, drop your feelings out there and try and work things out...
something still doesn't quite feel right and none of it matters?

I've explained in another thread about my wife, her new job working with 3 men, my insane jealousy issues, etc. We seemed to have been past that, but we were discussing her job the other day, and she told me these guys spend a lot of time at Hooters and drop a lot of money on beer and food. All i said was, ohh so they are normal men then and interested in looking at women, not just all business, huh?

And the accusations started flying, first thing she says they don't come back to the office after drinking while she is there even though i did not mention it, then why did I go to hooter(last time was 5 plus yrs ago), why do i always accuse them and judge them, it just seems she is constantly defending them and and wanting to put me down.

This was Friday and all weekend I've just had a feeling she was still angry, then last night she finally said she was, but doesn't know why?

It's been different ever since she got this job, she just seems to want to argue first, even about things that do not pertain to work, then talk.

For example, over a week ago, her and my 13 yr old son were playing around, rough housing, he accidently hurt her, she went off on him. I went to talk to her since she hurt his feelings and he was crying and she gave me that same disgusted, hateful look and attitude that she does when I mention her work.

I asked, wth that was for, it was an acident and I was just trying to getthe 2 of them to relax, and she gave me the 'whatever, get out of my room", fine, see u later.

10-25-2010, 07:17 AM	#1 (permalink)
dontwanttoloseher Member Join Date: Aug 2010 Posts: 68	Ever get that feeling that no matter how much you talk to your spouse, drop your feelings out there and try and work things out... something still doesn't quite feel right and none of it matters? I've explained in another thread about my wife, her new job working with 3 men, my insane jealousy issues, etc. We seemed to have been past that, but we were discussing her job the other day, and she told me these guys spend a lot of time at Hooters and drop a lot of money on beer and food. All i said was, ohh so they are normal men then and interested in looking at women, not just all business, huh? And the accusations started flying, first thing she says they don't come back to the office after drinking while she is there even though i did not mention it, then why did I go to hooter(last time was 5 plus yrs ago), why do i always accuse them and judge them, it just seems she is constantly defending them and and wanting to put me down. This was Friday and all weekend I've just had a feeling she was still angry, then last night she finally said she was, but doesn't know why? It's been different ever since she got this job, she just seems to want to argue first, even about things that do not pertain to work, then talk. For example, over a week ago, her and my 13 yr old son were playing around, rough housing, he accidently hurt her, she went off on him. I went to talk to her since she hurt his feelings and he was crying and she gave me that same disgusted, hateful look and attitude that she does when I mention her work. I asked, wth that was for, it was an acident and I was just trying to getthe 2 of them to relax, and she gave me the 'whatever, get out of my room", fine, see u later.