stevo7782

My wife left me 9 months ago, right before christmas and she was dating someone a months later, i tried so hard to get her back for months but nothing worked...she came back to me out ot the blue about a month and a half ago, evn though her new relationship was wonderful...i didnt know if i wanted to gve her a chance again or if i even loved her anymore...but the the moment i was next to her again i felt that love come rushing back...so i opened up and am willing to give it a chance..things were great the first few weeks, she reallly seemed like she changed, i fell in love all over again...plus she has a daughter, who i concioder my own, that is 8 and we have the most wonderful relationship...she said how much she missed me...but my wife is tellin me that she doesnt know what she wants, shes "struggling" with this and doesnt know why! now she just told me yesterday she needs time to work on herself and tiome away from me. what do i do? i waited 9 months for her to come back, i started my life over, i was ok with the fact the she wasnt coming back and she was happy. then she comes back, gives me a taste of having my family back then rips it away from me AGAIN! im so lost, everything i worked so hard to do is all gone cause i decided to love her again and trust her...i feel like the first day she left all over again..what to do? im so lost...please help if you could....