MarkTwain

If you focused on meeting your husband's needs, and he focused on meeting yours, all would be well. But of course life would be very quiet if we all did that, and Chris would nit be running this forum. Let's face it you have BP, so you are going to have to live with being a bit up and down. I am a bit OCD. I don't know anyone who has not got some sort of a problem. The successful ones manage their problems, and head off situations before they become terminal. It won't hurt you to be be more giving, and it will take your mind of yourself.