| | Re: Old but telling article about men doing housework (UK)
I hate to do this.
When I was at the therapist by myself (yes, I'm telling you something from my autobiography), I said something very similar.
She looked at me directly and said, "Do you want it to work"?
I'll ask you the same thing.
I imagine you have some very compassionate parts of your personality. If you can get to them and use them in this pursuit, your chance for positive results improve greatly.