babyblues7

I started using the keylogger after he was up late one night on the computer, and I knew his excuse for what he was doing wasnt the truth. This has been going on pretty much since we've been married, which has been almost a year now, and I just suspected other things were going on that he wasnt telling me about and I felt I needed to know, because I didnt want to be married to someone, that would leave there wife in bed alone to pursue some cyber fantasy.

I know I am a very understanding person, and really I have no where else to go, so I have been really trying to get at the issue at hand to try and understand why someone would want to do this. I know my husband does bring up that we dont have sex as often enough as he would like, but I just at this point dont feel very attracted to him, and apparently his philosphy is that he will fulfill his needs elsewhere.

We are together intimately at least 2-3 times a week, I dont know if that is a normal range, but honestly that is just fine with me. The thing is if he is dissatisfied with our sex life he really has done nothing personally to try and change it. I dont see how if thats not an issue for me, why I should be the one to initiate that. I know I need to talk to him, especially about the sexual conversation with that other man, but I really dont know what to say, I just want to laugh in his face about the absurdity of it all. We should be enjoying our life together and instead he is robbing our marriage, just so confusing and stupid really. Thanks for all your advice...