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Jooky · 10-30-2010, 06:22 AM

Sisters359,

Your judgmental post was off-base and was unhelpful. During a time when I was already feeling horrible about myself, you encouraged me to feel worse. I owe you no justifications as to why your assessment was wrong, but I and the many friends and loved ones who surround me know who I am, and you don't.

Look in the mirror, though. Do you know who you are? Where are you now? I see you and I joined this group around the same time. I have 11 posts and you have 1,300+. My divorce is final, and I'm very happy about it. I met my girlfriend 2 months after my ex-wife left me, and I moved in with her about 9 months after that. And we're doing great living together. I even moved across the country to be with her. I got a job within one month of being here, have gotten numerous promotions since then, and have moved forward with a kind woman whom I love deeply, my new girlfriend.

What have you done? You may want to look in the mirror before you again kick someone who is already down.

10-30-2010, 06:22 AM	#6 (permalink)
Jooky Registered User Join Date: Apr 2009 Location: Midwest Posts: 12	Re: Probably too late Sisters359, Your judgmental post was off-base and was unhelpful. During a time when I was already feeling horrible about myself, you encouraged me to feel worse. I owe you no justifications as to why your assessment was wrong, but I and the many friends and loved ones who surround me know who I am, and you don't. Look in the mirror, though. Do you know who you are? Where are you now? I see you and I joined this group around the same time. I have 11 posts and you have 1,300+. My divorce is final, and I'm very happy about it. I met my girlfriend 2 months after my ex-wife left me, and I moved in with her about 9 months after that. And we're doing great living together. I even moved across the country to be with her. I got a job within one month of being here, have gotten numerous promotions since then, and have moved forward with a kind woman whom I love deeply, my new girlfriend. What have you done? You may want to look in the mirror before you again kick someone who is already down.