Hello,
I am new to this forum as well. I would be totally devasted too. However, maybe I can help you look at things in a different way. Why did you post on this forum? To hopefully find someone to talk to, right? I'm sure that was your husband's original intentions at the time. Maybe he just found someone to simply talk to openly without fear of being jugded, and I am by no means saying that your are judging him for anything. I don't know the details of your marriage of course, but your husband may think that you think less of him since he cannot be sexually active with you anymore. Maybe he even feels embarassed. The person he is talking to may not know that side of him and that is comforting to him. I don't know if this helps, but I hope it does.
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