Usually when I try and address these issues, he usually says that he isnt doing anything and that I need to move on and quit dwelling on these issues. He has brought up some reasons in the past about why he does these things, one being he is just bored, and another because I dont give him that much attention, well he acts like I should be around him all day and that isnt possible.
I just know as soon as I start to discuss these issues how it will go. He gets defensive and I get pissed. I dont want to go to couples therapy because I really dont know if thats going to help anything. I think he maybe needs to go talk to someone. The biggest question for me is if he loves me then why does he do these things...I would never intentionally hurt anyone. Thanks for the advice
