Let me understand this... he had the PA... and he's the one witholding sex. Somehow somethings not right. Its like he's punishing you for getting busted. 2 months is too long, heck 2 weeks is too long.
Why exactly are you putting up with this?
What was his resasoning on the affair?
Btw, its been about 10 days... which is about 8 days more than i'd like it to be, but nothing i can do about that.