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draconis · 10-31-2007, 06:26 PM

First, your husbands situation is his own and you have to seperate that from the issue of the marriage. He cheated, lied, and hurt you. The question is can you ever forgive him?

If the answer is no then you will be miserable, and blame him for everything he has done and everything that he hasn't.

If you want to keep everything together have him move with you.

If you decide you want to be free then let go and if you have kids together then stay nice enough that you can get alone for the kids.

draconis.

10-31-2007, 06:26 PM	#2 (permalink)
draconis Forum Supporter Join Date: Oct 2007 Location: North East Posts: 3,475	Re: Still Confused.......... First, your husbands situation is his own and you have to seperate that from the issue of the marriage. He cheated, lied, and hurt you. The question is can you ever forgive him? If the answer is no then you will be miserable, and blame him for everything he has done and everything that he hasn't. If you want to keep everything together have him move with you. If you decide you want to be free then let go and if you have kids together then stay nice enough that you can get alone for the kids. draconis.