Originally Posted by Rob774
Here's the thing OP, he's doing this... because he can! Somehow you guys got pass the affair, but he's so bitter for being caught, " I'll show her!"
This is not the interpretation I would make if it were me.
Just as likely, it seems to me, that whatever send him seeking in the first place is still unresolved. I wonder what makes him feel unsafe and disconnected?
I would also ask myself, post affair, why are YOU dogging HIM for affection, connection and rebuilding? Is he in the game?
Anyway you slice it, I will bet a dollar that there is more going on here than lack of sex.