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Originally Posted by guiltygirl
Honey- I am going to try to find some time to myself. I know my husband gets tired of me complaining or shutting him out so as not to bother him. It's a challenge to find the time.
As far as work goes, they are putting a lot of pressure on us right now. As a perfectionist, I want to do everything they're asking, but it seems impossible. This is really what is getting to me right now. Of course, my student cause me some grief and wear me down a bit, but that's not the main issue.
My fear is that my husband may not ever trust that I love him again.
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give your husband some credit and give things a try. If you can find peace in yourself before family then you will communicate with him better. He will see the change. If not than you can move on to other things. But if you don't try anything new then you will be stuck where you are right now and I don't think you want your marriage to always be like this.
draconis