| | Re: Torn Up Inside - Potential Walkaway Wife Syndrome?
I would say do it now, before you bring kids into the mix. Kids are wonderful, but they certainly make marriage harder, not easier. If you aren't feeling the bond NOW, before kids, that's not a good sign. Definitely keep it up with the individual therapy.
If you do decide to stay, then FOR THE LOVE, don't have kids until you feel completely, 100%, back in love and committed to your spouse. Don't plan to bring kids into a relationship that is this shaky. That's insanity.