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Old 10-06-2008, 03:43 PM   #15 (permalink)
Blanca
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Default Re: In trouble again...

My H and I had a similar relationship not too long ago. Emotions flying around all over and no one knows what belongs to who. It really is exhausting.

I think you two ought to work on your boundaries. It will help you be accountable for your own emotions and let go of what is out of your control.

I've used Dr.Phils Relationship Rescue book and workbook. It was good. And also Boundaries in Marriage book and workbook (2006), by Dr. Cloud & Townsend.

Even if you just do it by yourself you'll start to be able to manage all the jumbled emotions that fly between the two of you.
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