Talk About Marriage - View Single Post - 5 year long relationship... no proposal. What should I do?

Ladybugs · 11-03-2010, 08:45 PM

as far as the breadwinner thing, its nice that he wants to provide, however, using it in the way he is my sense is that its an excuse to put off marriage decision...

explain to him that you admire him wanting to be the breadwinner, but what is even alot more important to you than that, is that you two be in a commited (marriage) relationship...

I agree with other poster, you will need to draw a line, if he lets you walk, then it means he doesnt love you as much as you hoped for..if he does love you that much, he will say "wait..ok, lets get married"

its better to know after 5 yrs then to wait another 5 and get burned

the ball is in his court

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Ladybugs Banned Join Date: Oct 2010 Location: los angeles Posts: 108	Re: 5 year long relationship... no proposal. What should I do? as far as the breadwinner thing, its nice that he wants to provide, however, using it in the way he is my sense is that its an excuse to put off marriage decision... explain to him that you admire him wanting to be the breadwinner, but what is even alot more important to you than that, is that you two be in a commited (marriage) relationship... I agree with other poster, you will need to draw a line, if he lets you walk, then it means he doesnt love you as much as you hoped for..if he does love you that much, he will say "wait..ok, lets get married" its better to know after 5 yrs then to wait another 5 and get burned the ball is in his court