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Trenton · 11-05-2010, 12:01 PM

Live your life as if he weren't in it. I know this might be the hardest thing to do right now and seems like an impossibility but regaining your sole self back right now is in your best interest for two HUGE reasons.
1. If you become more of you he very well might fall back in love with you as you have probably become an us or a Mom or whatever other titles you have. All of this drains the you.
2. Hopefully in seeing you he will come back but if he doesn't, you will be more prepared for the loss and difficult times you and your family will be facing.

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Trenton Member Join Date: Aug 2010 Posts: 4,948	Re: Confused, Husband told me he doesnt feel the way he used to feel. Live your life as if he weren't in it. I know this might be the hardest thing to do right now and seems like an impossibility but regaining your sole self back right now is in your best interest for two HUGE reasons. 1. If you become more of you he very well might fall back in love with you as you have probably become an us or a Mom or whatever other titles you have. All of this drains the you. 2. Hopefully in seeing you he will come back but if he doesn't, you will be more prepared for the loss and difficult times you and your family will be facing.