hi draconis,
i have been reading many of your posts, u r a great person and a wonderful husband!
I have been looking for such ideas to spice up our marriage since i had kids. But, what happens when only one person does such lil things and the other always says "thanks" "I love u" and nothing more??? should i continue to do and stop expecting the same???
After some serious issues a few months back we are working on our relationship again, its hard to find time with two babies, and i feel like we just doing nice stuffs for the sake of doing and dont really enjoy it

any suggestion!
Sorry to use ur thread to post question! U can pm me if u dont want to mess this thread

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