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After some serious issues a few months back we are working on our relationship again, its hard to find time with two babies, and i feel like we just doing nice stuffs for the sake of doing and dont really enjoy it any suggestion!
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If possible have your/his parents watch the little ones once a week even if for a few hours. Having that alone time really helps.
Have your kids on a schedule. In bed at 8 and you and the hubby have that time together after.
Doing nice things is great, if you are not enjoying them then I'd say look at your stress level. It is clear you care about what you have but if stress gets in the way you can't enjoy things as much.
With women this often effects the sex life too, so that they can't orgasm.
I also think you need to look at the serious issues from a few months back and figure out if they have been solved. If it has great. If not keep working to solve it(them).
I will admit two babies is hard, I have four total (12, 7, 3, 1 and a half). Thankfully for the grandparents who give us a day every week. Even every other or once a month is a start. Even a trusted sibling or worst case a good baby sitter. Keep those flames going!
draconis