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Originally Posted by draconis
By all means you need to tell your husband how you feel. You are family first and he needs to understand that. If it is a money issue look at other options because it seems like your choices are bad and worse.
draconis
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like i wrote in a previous post to Vonster... my husband is basically the first in our relationship to lay down the weapons and give up on us. he can easily kill 'hope' with just his pessimistic words and approach to 'us'.
he actually told me the other day that if i'm so unhappy with it all, then i can move to a place of my own if i really can't deal with it. he did have a smile on his face while saying it, so maybe he was just joking, or pulling my legs (thinking that i wouldn't have the heart to do something like that)... but still, it was pretty hurtful. though on the spot i didn't say anything about it.
right now, things are pretty OK. our relationship is getting along pretty quietly, and it's nice. but i know the big stuff is coming up ahead (like the move we're considering, and his mother coming over to the UK...). so am kind of bracing myself for all that...