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827Aug · 10-08-2008, 12:13 PM

Someone has done a nice review of "The Five Love Languages" in the book review section of this forum.

The book gave me hope because I saw where we went wrong in our marriage. Once I understood which "Language" my husband had to have to feel love, I began to focus on doing those things. While we are still separated, we get along a lot better now. This book will provide you with plenty of guidance--even when the spouse chooses not to participate. There are things YOU can do without her participation.

Now on the cheating aspect of your problem, the book will help you understand WHY your wife cheated. It's ususally to fill an emptiness.

I think at this point you are probably still shocked an confused and may not know what to do. Part of you wants to save your marriage and the other part wants to end it because of the ultimate betrayl. Your course of action will depend on the path you choose. Just remember there is still hope--she hasn't filed for divorce yet.

10-08-2008, 12:13 PM	#10 (permalink)
827Aug Member Join Date: Apr 2008 Location: Southern USA Posts: 651	Re: She says she loves someone else what to do Someone has done a nice review of "The Five Love Languages" in the book review section of this forum. The book gave me hope because I saw where we went wrong in our marriage. Once I understood which "Language" my husband had to have to feel love, I began to focus on doing those things. While we are still separated, we get along a lot better now. This book will provide you with plenty of guidance--even when the spouse chooses not to participate. There are things YOU can do without her participation. Now on the cheating aspect of your problem, the book will help you understand WHY your wife cheated. It's ususally to fill an emptiness. I think at this point you are probably still shocked an confused and may not know what to do. Part of you wants to save your marriage and the other part wants to end it because of the ultimate betrayl. Your course of action will depend on the path you choose. Just remember there is still hope--she hasn't filed for divorce yet.