Originally Posted by kajira

We talked last night after doing the whole "Halloween" thing for about 2 hours. I think it was actually pretty good. We actually listened to one another. Nevertheless, we are going through with the divorce. We realize that no matter how much we may love each other we are not good for each other. All the things I have begged to hear for years he finally was saying "your special, beautiful" etc., emotionally it is hard. After all this time he finally see's what I have been asking for, that fuel to feed my fire, yet we know it is over........what a mess