Talk About Marriage - View Single Post

draconis · 11-01-2007, 11:03 AM

A bit of insight. I was married once before and was the typical husband. I worked hard, helped around the house but was looking for the future and forgot about the present. My first wife felt neglected and cheated on me for that closeness she missed. It was a real wake up call. He needs to continue that magical spark. There is a reason retired couples are so close. They have all that time to share together. He needs to learn this too.

Yes even with four kids we have a romantic, loving relationship. I have learned the secrets of communicating and understanding better. So can he.

draconis

11-01-2007, 11:03 AM	#4 (permalink)
draconis Forum Supporter Join Date: Oct 2007 Location: North East Posts: 3,475	Re: For Thewife A bit of insight. I was married once before and was the typical husband. I worked hard, helped around the house but was looking for the future and forgot about the present. My first wife felt neglected and cheated on me for that closeness she missed. It was a real wake up call. He needs to continue that magical spark. There is a reason retired couples are so close. They have all that time to share together. He needs to learn this too. Yes even with four kids we have a romantic, loving relationship. I have learned the secrets of communicating and understanding better. So can he. draconis Last edited by draconis; 11-01-2007 at 11:07 AM.