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snix11 · 10-08-2008, 08:19 PM

With him it can't be a bluff. He will go. He told me six months ago he wanted to go, and he's been making DAMN sure he doesn't fall back in love with me so he might just want to stay.

It wouldn't matter what ultimatum I issued, he just wants to leave. He's like a little kid that's been pouting because he couldn't have the ice cream he wanted. Today, looking for some business paperwork I came across a 'secret' folder of about 8GB of redhead porn. Why Hide it? I don't give a hoot what he watches. But it shows me he's still not being honest with me.

He's been 'trying' and cordial all week. but you can see it's a pain for him. he has to remind himself to hug me. twice today when he left he just 'left'. he never ever used to do that when he liked me.

I'm just trying to figure out if it's worth it to stay for the kids. That's a toughie. His kids adore me now, even the teenager. my kids love having a dad around and he's great with the baby.

surely there is a compromise here somewhere?

10-08-2008, 08:19 PM	#62 (permalink)
snix11 Member Join Date: Sep 2008 Location: San Antonio Posts: 1,234	Re: How to get the Truth out of Man... With him it can't be a bluff. He will go. He told me six months ago he wanted to go, and he's been making DAMN sure he doesn't fall back in love with me so he might just want to stay. It wouldn't matter what ultimatum I issued, he just wants to leave. He's like a little kid that's been pouting because he couldn't have the ice cream he wanted. Today, looking for some business paperwork I came across a 'secret' folder of about 8GB of redhead porn. Why Hide it? I don't give a hoot what he watches. But it shows me he's still not being honest with me. He's been 'trying' and cordial all week. but you can see it's a pain for him. he has to remind himself to hug me. twice today when he left he just 'left'. he never ever used to do that when he liked me. I'm just trying to figure out if it's worth it to stay for the kids. That's a toughie. His kids adore me now, even the teenager. my kids love having a dad around and he's great with the baby. surely there is a compromise here somewhere?