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tnt20years · 10-10-2008, 01:56 PM

Thank you all for such excellent advice and comments!!! I never lacked in self-confidence until the last few years, at which time my confidence has dropped like a rock! But I am working on this!! Physically and mentally!! I have recently lost about 25 pounds.....still have more to lose...that's my main physical fault. Although the "girls" could use some uplifting!! Now I need to look into the mental part of it!! So much has happened to make me feel insecure, but we're moving past it and my marriage is better now than it has been in a long time. The wind is changing and hopefully will continue. I just need to leave the past in the past and work on me!! But it's difficult when your mind wanders and you think your husband is comparing you to these other women!!! Something I need to work on.

10-10-2008, 01:56 PM	#11 (permalink)
tnt20years Member Join Date: Aug 2008 Posts: 60	Re: Do you ever feel like your husband is comparing you to someone else? Thank you all for such excellent advice and comments!!! I never lacked in self-confidence until the last few years, at which time my confidence has dropped like a rock! But I am working on this!! Physically and mentally!! I have recently lost about 25 pounds.....still have more to lose...that's my main physical fault. Although the "girls" could use some uplifting!! Now I need to look into the mental part of it!! So much has happened to make me feel insecure, but we're moving past it and my marriage is better now than it has been in a long time. The wind is changing and hopefully will continue. I just need to leave the past in the past and work on me!! But it's difficult when your mind wanders and you think your husband is comparing you to these other women!!! Something I need to work on.