Originally Posted by Trenton
So do you actually believe it is how you look at it and what you do with the baggage rather than that the baggage always has to be a weight, negative factor in a relationship? If so, then we agree.
I wonder how long we can keep this baggage analogy going. Soon I'm going to gather up the monkeys on our back and have them poo on the strewn about baggage...
Yep. We agree. Acknowledge that your lugging a weight around, shift it to make it lighter and carry it comfortably - or consistently drop it, and b!tch about how heavy and what a PITA it is, and use it as an excuse for inaction.
Thank you both for sharing what you struggle with.