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DawnD · 11-18-2010, 01:42 PM

I honestly don't know. But what I do know is that she will have to see your changes with her own eyes to believe any of it, especially if there was talk of any problems before and you happened to either ignore it, or fix it for a week and revert back to the same old thing.

I will say that she could be really hesitant to move back in, with that exact fear that you will just fall back into the same routine after a few weeks. I think you should probably offer suggestions to fix problems permanently ( I don't know whether some would need counseling or not, you didn't state what the problems were) and you both need to work on communicating with each other calmly so you can fix things before it gets to a breaking point.

As for the phone call, it could be an honestly busy day and she either forgot or just got really busy at work.

11-18-2010, 01:42 PM	#2 (permalink)
DawnD Member Join Date: Sep 2009 Posts: 1,937	Re: Need Lady's advice Please I honestly don't know. But what I do know is that she will have to see your changes with her own eyes to believe any of it, especially if there was talk of any problems before and you happened to either ignore it, or fix it for a week and revert back to the same old thing. I will say that she could be really hesitant to move back in, with that exact fear that you will just fall back into the same routine after a few weeks. I think you should probably offer suggestions to fix problems permanently ( I don't know whether some would need counseling or not, you didn't state what the problems were) and you both need to work on communicating with each other calmly so you can fix things before it gets to a breaking point. As for the phone call, it could be an honestly busy day and she either forgot or just got really busy at work.