Tomorrow will make one week that my husband and I have been apart.
Let me give you a little information about my situation since I didn't do that before. He said that he was losing some feelings for me. Basically, he still loves me but isn't sure if he's still in love with me. We've had some problems that will be easy to resolve if we decide to work it out. I'm all for working it out...I love him more than anything. I just hope that he makes the same decision.
So I've gotten better about being more independent this week. Of course it's only been a week so I'm not totally fine or anything...but I've improved. I've gone out with some friends a couple times. I'm planning a trip to go visit another friend in NY very soon. I've been trying to do things for myself, things that will not make me think about my husband. It's been hard but I'm doing ok. I know now that if things work out for the two of us I need to make more friends and do things on my own more often.
However, I still think about him a lot. I still wonder what he's doing and how he's doing without me. We talked once this week and it was a very short conversation but it was so good to hear his voice.
I'm so ready for this separation to be over and to be with him again but obviously he's not at that point yet.