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Deejo · 11-19-2010, 11:07 AM

This one's easy.

Ask her what her choice is.
She obviously doesn't give a sh!t about the ring. If you approach the subject in terms of feeling hurt that she isn't wearing it - you lose.

Given that you haven't taken the time to get your own ring fixed, it can't be all of that big a deal to you. If you want to make a statement, have your ring repaired and start wearing it without mentioning hers.

How are you feeling overall? Still feel like you're walking around on eggshells?

11-19-2010, 11:07 AM	#94 (permalink)
Deejo Moderator Join Date: May 2008 Location: MA Posts: 5,080	Re: How to handle rejection... This one's easy. Ask her what her choice is. She obviously doesn't give a sh!t about the ring. If you approach the subject in terms of feeling hurt that she isn't wearing it - you lose. Given that you haven't taken the time to get your own ring fixed, it can't be all of that big a deal to you. If you want to make a statement, have your ring repaired and start wearing it without mentioning hers. How are you feeling overall? Still feel like you're walking around on eggshells? __________________ "I figured out they were serious eventually but was thinking it was ridiculous. I wanted to kick them in the balls." - Trenton