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Hey askquest, I am guessing that you and your wife are from a more traditional society, from an African country maybe? Let me know if I am right.
I believe that if you are living in London it would be very hard and very unfair to expect one person to carry the burden. She needs to contribute, even if this is not how her culture works in your home country.