 Re: How many chances is enough already?!!
DanF, I’m pretty positive his act will be see-through and I really hate to waste my time going through with this process especially knowing my moving on is necessary for my sanity and he's not going to accept the outcome anyway.
I think I'm trying to prolong the mess to follow once he realizes he’s not going to get his way this time…or hoping that something will click into place in his brain to just let this go.
I’m not trying to take anything away from this man. I’ve explained to him that me and the kids will always be there for him, that the kids relationship with him wouldn’t change..it would only be the status of his and my relationship that will be different. I do love him and wish the best for him…I can be his friend, but I just can’t be his wife.
He’s refusing to let go. And his not letting go seems to be keeping the brakes on me moving forward. How do you open a new door when the one behind you hasn’t been closed yet?
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