I think that you are being very proactive in improving yourself before you dive into parenthood and becoming a husband. I am a female and I like your list but there was one that stuck out to me...number 14...while yes it is important to do the things she likes to do...sont forget the things you like to do. Always doing what she wants to do will get old fast...trust me...in a marriage you should find things that you BOTH like to do and respect the things your partner wants to do whether or not you like them too...for example...my fiance LOVES ice hockey...me...I hate it...but I go to the games and have a good time and at least try to learn about the sport. He goes with me to see movies that I like(yes even chick flicks)...so a relationship should be an even compromise BOTH ways...
kudos for the effort that you are making!! Your future wife will appreciate it!!
