1. Do you think that the reality of being a stay at home mom may be taking a toll on her? After years of doing it she may feel that her life is not going anywhere.
2. Do you two ever do anything special together? do you ever suprise her with flowers or doing the dishes or things like that?
3. When you come home from work does she have time to do things that she wants to do(ex. go for a walk, wash her hair, read).
Speaking from the view of a stay-at-home mom...I know how frustrating it can be to watch your partner leave the house and know that you are there ALL day...it is lonely, boring and repetitive...I hope that my comments above were somewhat helpful...also, when she has a fit like that...approach her calmly and timidly and NON-CONFRONTATIONAL...let her know that you have noticed a change in her moods and that you care about what she is going through...whatever that may be...for all you know...it may have NOTHING to do with you....
