| | Re: How much of a big deal is this:
there is no reason to think he would be the same person with you. either it isnt true, and he just wanted out and he let her have whatever she wanted, you dont know all the details, or else its true, does it change the way you feel or your relationship for that matter?
he will tell you if he feels its right, did you ever cheat or psedo cheated, are you going to tell him all about it? probally not on your wedding nite. if you feel comfortable and secure would you tell him all the past lovers you had prob not. why?
because, the two of you are not thoes past relationship people. and plus you cheated, you werent supposed to look, and if you confront him, and scream at him , and he says, yes i cheated once twice or even three times. what then would you give him a free pass to know one of the top three things you would take to your grave?
maybe not...let sleeping dogs lie...for now be a little alert if you think he has in the past with you shown signs sneakiness. im guessing there isnt, or else you wouldnt be this upset,before you walk down the aisle.
just think about all possibilites and all angles.